Darling, attraction is never wrong. When I was your age my celeb crush was Joe Lando (Sully on Dr. Quinn) who was at the time close to 40.
I think you have wonderful tastes, as Raphael is not only attractive but also kind. I got to talk to him last year and hug him, and he really is one of the nicest people I’ve met.
Society says we’re supposed to be attracted to people our own age, or close to it. Society also says that we’re supposed to be attracted to ‘conventionally’ handsome people. And people of an opposite gender from ourself.
Attraction isn’t some formula, and it’s not something Hollywood or society gets to dictate. We are attracted to who we’re attracted to, and there’s nothing wrong with that.
The only thing I would caution is that at 16 there’s nothing wrong with having a crush on an older man, but not a relationship with one right now.
Dear Anon, I hope you forgive this shameless self-promotion, but I just wanted to assure you that you are not alone in finding Raphael Sbarge attractive. :)
babby raph should not be allowed to exist, he is stealing the thunder from the concepts of puppies and kittens
Okay, I just had to reblog for that comment. :P